Vicky Kaushal says wife Katrina Kaif is sometimes too honest: ‘I keep telling her to sugarcoat…’ | Feelings News

Chhaava actor Vicky Kaushal recently opened up about his equation with wife Katrina Kaif, sharing that she is an honest critique. “Sometimes, she is too honest. I keep telling her to sometimes sugarcoat. She is very honest,” Kaushal said.
Heaping praises on the Merry Chrmas actor’s journey and unflinching focus, Kaushal told Bombay Times Lounge: “She has had a far longer journey than I have had. She has had mega-stardom in that sense. So, of course, I learned a lot from her journey because she has really hustled through her way. She has worked hard. When I didn’t know her, I used to hear stories about how hardworking she is. When I came to know her, she really is. When she has her blinkers on, nobody can durb her. Nobody can take the focus off her, whatever she has put her eyes on. And she really puts in that work. That’s why she is where she is. That is what I learned from her a lot.”
Kaushal, 36, also opened up about how he finds guidance in Kaif, 41.
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He added that she has an objective perspective whenever he discusses something with her regarding his scripts or creative things. “It becomes difficult to be objective when two people are together. She is able to give me that third-person perspective when it comes to my creative thoughts. It gives me a great perspective…like this is where I could do better, I could do differently, or one of the opinions that I can’t see coming. So, all of that really helps.”
Let’s understand how such a bond and understanding between partners can help relationships flourish (or not).
Archana Singhal, counsellor and family therap, founder, Mindwell Counsel, Delhi, said when a partner is extremely frank, honest, and doesn’t sugarcoat things, it can have mixed effects on relationships and the people around them.
Here’s what you must consider (Photo: Freepik)
Some admire it. “People might appreciate straightforwardness as they might find it refreshing and reliable,” said Singhal. Some others may feel “uncomfortable”. “Honesty can come across as rude, insensitive, or harsh, if a partner makes comments without filtering, it can create tension in social settings,” said Singhal.Story continues below this ad
Effects on the relationship
Stronger trust (if handled well): The other partner knows there’s no deception. “Might grow emotionally stronger if they learn to separate honesty from personal attacks,” said Singhal.
Frequent conflicts: If honesty lacks tact, it can lead to hurt feelings, defensiveness, or resentment.
Difficulty in emotional support: The blunt partner may struggle to provide reassurance or comforting words when needed. “One can feel deeply hurt if they are sensitive or value diplomacy,” said Singhal.

Communication gaps: The other partner may hesitate to share feelings for fear of being judged or dismissed. Singhal said one could start avoiding difficult conversations if they feel their partner is too harsh.Story continues below this ad
Few pointers to strike a balance
*The blunt partner may have good intentions but needs to be aware of how their words would impact their partner or people around them.
*One needs to be kind. “Honesty doesn’t have to be harsh—thoughtfully choosing words makes a difference,” said Singhal.

*You should know the proper time to speak. Not every truth needs to be spoken immediately.
*You need to be aware and understand your partner’s needs. “If they value emotional sensitivity, try to balance it,” said Singhal.Story continues below this ad
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